Im inspired to start again. It is a deliberate choice that will continue to haunt you for long. Your skin will look healthier, blood pressure may lower, and immune system function and liver inflammation will improve. I dont have any help Im doing this all on my own. We are individuals and responsible for ourselves, yet I quite regret the normalization of binge drinking and it acceptance in the UKs culture. im Glad there is moderators checking comments. 6 months of sobriety is a long journey of patience, challenges and determination. I was a first class wine lover and looked forward to my first glass after getting home from work. I exercise regularly, walk the dog, remember appointments. If you're like most people, you probably enjoy the occasional alcoholic beverage. Do it for you. But finally sleeping better, still waiting for the energy increase to kick in, am feeling tired all the time. Life is beautiful without alcohol. Im on calmer water now I do miss the buzz, I wont lie, but the after-booze fizzle isnt worth it. 7 nights a week. So i had my BP done on Monday this week which was very worryingly and i knew i had to do something pronto. My relationships, especially with my children. I work out 6 days a week, Ive dropped 10-12 pounds I assume the BP will improve with more weight loss and exercise. Good luck to all. it worked for me. Stick with it, go for a walk, think of how far you have come and the life you can have. I just would like some encouragement and would like to know if anyone still had trouble thinking straight. Energy better Overwhelming smugness is another side effect which I have to keep in check. Any advice is much appreciated x. I decided to stop drinking on 9th October, John Lennons birthday and have gone 48 days so far. Mood better. Metabolic Age 49, February 26th 43 yo WebHowever, it will take at least six months of alcohol abstinence to recover. Hmmm. I have been trying to cut back as I have been drinking quite heavily over the last year. This time, I plan to quit for good. Now Im feeling much more confident and yes, a little bit smug! Is this an issue for you and your wife? Eating well, before it was mostly booze calories. Dont let alcohol steal your time here on Earth. Yes! When you stop drinking, symptoms of alcohol withdrawing may pop up as early as six hours after the last drink. 8 months of kicking that lie out of my life and Ill never look back. REM sleep) that you need to help your body de-stress, repair, and replenish itself for the upcoming day. This is my second time going clean for three months. During this journey you will try lots of techniques, strategies and ways to change your relationship with alcohol. I feel so much better now! One thing, for sure. I wanted to be able to stop, when I would try and go a couple days to sober up if I had to be somewhere for work, I would lay in a fetal position on the couch , clenched jaw, unbearable anxiety, shakes and night sweats. I still wake up with that bitter morning after boozy smell and taste. I quit drinking beer and wine due to personal health scare. good luck to all its definitely worth it. Subsequently, they questioned my alcohol intake and I decided that day I had to come clean with myself, partner and family members. Best to all. Finally I started getting chest pains, my BP was crazy and I felt terrible. of sobriety. Research shows that one month in, some people start to feel a sense of achievement and control over their relationship with alcohol (O de Visser & Piper, 2020). AF. I am 97 days AF and since day 40-50 i havent had a single craving for red wine or beer. Your sleep quality should continue to improve, and this (amongst other benefits) should provide an improvement to your overall health. I knew I had to quit or would die soon. In reality of course I was not asking for help in everyday tasks and that overload of work was creating my stress so I felt that a drink was a just reward, and although I resisted the call it was hard a few times. Problem solved! Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant, which means it has a slowing effect on the brain. Even though its only 3 weeks, I feel so much better, constipation is slowly getting better now I have bough tablets from the pharmacy. Stop drinking boosts self confidence and you stop feeling sorry for you yourself. I can look forward now with hope and can actually make a go of things. Sober 3 months. Improved relationships. I dont have nightmares anymore, off an ssri, and so much more. A really helpful article, thank you. And I hated the fact that I was normalising drinking for them. Thank you for telling me about the chocolate craving. Alcoholic Drinks. Im about to try! Journal of alcohol and drug education. 'I Lost 50 Lbs. Recently, my fingernails have also changed, in that they sometimes appear blueish at the cuticle, but this comes and goes. Is very very difficult to start off with but gets better with time as the body starts to heal itself. Slowly, the sober life made sense and the desire to drink & use faded some. Watched someone drink a bottle of wine in front of me last night. And once you become adapted to it, as your body adapts to everything, you will be unstoppable. Due to some tests the past 6 months I started to pay more attention to my metrics. I never was big into sweets/soda but Ive been loving chocolate like the rest of you guys and diet ginger ale. I make to-do lists for my job to keep me on track. I have never eaten sweets, now thats all I want. The sweet cravings have gone thru the roof. Good for you. I too had a big addiction to wine. "Planning what you are going to say and what your boundaries are ahead of time can help you deal with these situations when they arise," she adds. Good luck and enjoy the journey. I sleep now 7-8 hrs every night up from 5-6 and i feel much more relaxed, focussed and a calmer , nicer partner and dad. Six months no alcohol,,,at first rapid weight loss,,,not my aim,,,,so started eating more and levelled out ,,,now will concentrate on my weight ,,,,,in age 77 male. I used to drink so much that I would constantly forget things people would tell me and spend a lot of time alone. Firstly, thank you Alyssa Sterry. I know exactly what you mean Aaron. 6. After work 2 glasses weekends 4 bottles. Tough life as my son passed away and shortly after my sister died of cancer that increased my drinking. Luckily, it was nothing that strong coffee and an Advil couldn't fixexcept for the .css-7qz8rz{-webkit-text-decoration:underline;text-decoration:underline;text-decoration-thickness:0.0625rem;text-decoration-color:#f7623b;text-underline-offset:0.25rem;color:inherit;-webkit-transition:background 0.4s;transition:background 0.4s;background:linear-gradient(#ffffff, #ffffff 50%, #feebe7 50%, #feebe7);-webkit-background-size:100% 200%;background-size:100% 200%;}.css-7qz8rz:hover{color:#000000;text-decoration-color:border-link-body-hover;-webkit-background-position:100% 100%;background-position:100% 100%;}weight gain. It impairs your sleep-wake cycle too. I go to the gym 5-6 days a week, half marathon this February. If you are, recovery may take a little while longernonetheless, you'll feel better than you did during the first few days of withdrawal. I stopped drinking 3 months ago. Its an extremely hard battle to fight,but I promise, When you finally are able go without for a period of time that clears your mind and allows your brain to heal its self. 1 month alcohol free. Coffee and tons of water. A handle a day is a lot. Not to forget a significant financial saving which I have used to reward myself in different ways. As your body adjusts to a lack of alcohol, your blood pressure will likely drop and your liver will heal from any effects of heavy or binge drinking, says Dr. Peterson. I did fall over and could not get up without help and massive effort, even two weeks after. Go dance, have the conversations and recall everything the next day without the hangover. For those who do get craving I can highly recommend Heinken 0.0. Im 10 days AF after drinking regularly for several decades. No maybe on the weekend or just for a couple of months. When you negotiate, you can fk with the rules and conditions. This can lead to withdrawal symptoms, including anxiety, tremors, sweating, and nausea. I feel so much better too. Lets assume at some point in the 1 or 2 years of being sober you are forced into a stressful situation and end up drinking alcohol. not bothered about sleep etc that is an added bonus on top of the chance to live. Today is also 15 days being sober from marijuana which I dont miss at all, as I couldnt stand the way it made my head feel any longer after I used to love it. Med Clin North Am. Yes! Stay positive, keep going forward and take one day at a time. What a mindset to have and strong spirit, thank you for articulating it for those who appreciated reading your powerful words. So, giving up alcohol can help your skin to look more hydrated and glowing. Talk about vague, unexciting, and un-motivating. 2007. People that claim that wine and other alcoholic drinks enhances food flavor can stop lying. EJIFCC. Research also shows that some people experience an increased libido after reducing or quitting alcohol. Thanks for the article! I urge anyone trying to stop drinking to stick at it. I now have to ween myself off that as well as evening chocolate intake, rarely ate chocolate before. My appetite has really increased. June 12th,19 days in, sleeping better, eating better , just finding things to do, thanks all. It might mean the ability to get up earlier and get more done in the day. HUGELY helpful and relatable. Last February we lost power do to a harsh freeze for a few days. A huge decrease in anxiety. My sleep is already better. Instead, I realized Sobriety was something I had. Im glad I found this comments section. 28 days in to what I now believe will be my freedom. Better sleep happened almost immediately, along with really vivid dreams that I can now remember. I was very very sick and was committed to a tough rehab unit. Im drinking pots and pots of rooibos tea without sugar. Mocktails, or alcohol-free cocktails, are always a good swap. I dont even bother to explain why unless someone is genuinely curious. Started weight lifting again Ive almost always had a gym membership because I like the sauna and lifting weights. (Think ~$6/bottle). Newman RK, Stobart Gallagher MA, Gomez AE. Its been 2 months now I cant believe how deep I sleep at night. Hi,Ive been a light but regular drinker for years,Mr Average.Now retired, found more time to open a bottle. Ive been a heavy drinker since probably the age of 17. Sleep, libido,depression, anxiety and self worth aswell not to mention a sence of general well being. Kidneys and liver function tests are normal. I have gone through a host of other weird things week to week. Diane. Its hard but live on. i now cringe at the thought of vodka but I genuinely like the taste of beer so I have been drinking the 0 alcohol beer. God bless! Once you stop drinking, your body will slowly detoxify itself and get rid of all the toxins that were affecting your physical health and youll start appearing healthier. He was doing really good. Surprisingly, I didnt notice substantial changes after I cut down my alcohol consumption by 50-75%. Ive always jogged or speedwalked on my lunch hour when at the office, but that changed while working from home, to my husband and I going on a 5 mile walk with 2 beers in a bag. Planned my life around it. So I decided not to plan and every morning I woke up I asked for help to god to make this day an drink free one, and before I fell asleep Id say thank you for your help. Its not a self help book but talks about the science and social aspects of alcohol. Keep on everybody, we can do this!! Brilliant description Elizabeth ! I never saw my dad sober too much ad he had better reasons to drink like Vietnam I also endured countless hate filled speeches that drove me to believe in the white race is the best race mentality. Alcohol withdrawal is a result of your brain becoming too used to continuous exposure to the substance. i have been diagnosed with chronic liver disease and will be dead within a year if i continue drinking alcohol.i always thought it would never happen to me but guess what .. if that is not a wake up call to anybody i dont know what is. 6 Months Without Alcohol and Life is Beautiful In month five of not drinking alcohol, I knew I was a different person. But one day at a time right . Hello all, Ive been sober since mid March and Im curious as to what this smugness is about and how if manifest its self? So as of todays date I have been sober for 192 days. Approaching people without the drink, dancing and having conversations you remember is great. Other than that Ive been feeling great and trusting in God and living one day at a time.. Hi everyone. Ive known for years my relationship with alcahol was mostly one sided, it took more than it gave me resulting in horrific hangovers, depression, sleep deprivation and a feeling of disgust that I was allowing this to control me, my free time and most importantly my childrens lives. That said the benefits I have experienced are unfathomable, to me atleast. Sorry this is so winded but its awesome to be able to share. After one week, I was surprised how good it felt, so I tried Dry January. After 1 month I am feeling really great, evenings are so much more and waking up without the effect of alcohol is a pleasure. But I truly believe third times a charm. All of this means that taking a break from booze could help you better fight off any seasonal illnesses. WebThe answer to this question is a no. It was offered but I didnt want it. I was never one to get up in the morning and drink but every evening without fail. I have no desire to drink and my guilty feeling have gone. it will kill you and its not worth it. 3. I Quit Alcohol For Six Months And Lost 15 Pounds', K. Aleisha Fetters C.S.C.S. This is the longest stint I can ever remembervery sad. My b/p is going down,the quality of sleep is incredible,l didnt know l could sleep this well without alcohol,but ice cream and donuts have come in the picture,lm looking forward to many more months alchohol free,after 30 years of drinking,l dont miss it, Hi Peter, thats great that you quieted and you are feeling better , i quieted drinking for a month now and i went through a lot of symptoms ,the one is still not going away that easy its my b/p and bloated and constipated ,just wondering if you been through the same and if they eventually went away ,thanks in advance, I too Peter feel so much better. Hi, I stopped drinking on the 4th January. It was all or none. You can beat this thing and when you do, your body can forgive you. 18 Keto Smoothies That Legit Taste Like Milkshakes, Easy Keto Side Dishes For Every Taste Bud. I have been drinking a bottle of wine every evening for the past 3 years due to lockdown and undergoing 2 traumatic experiences which have scarred me for life. Feeling physically good but mentally, I have never been so drained. When my inner child gets bratty and tries to tell me what to do, I can say STFU, you dont call the shots any more I do! Staying alcohol free for 6 months gives your body and mind enough time to heal from the damage alcohol does to it. It is nice to read all the comments and be able to relate. 1 week Also, your sleep It can increase the percentage of liver fat and cause it to function abnormally. I just did my first Christmas and New Years in 25 year alcohol free. Posts are all inspiring and mirror much of my journey. This is similar to possible weight loss. At 3 months AF, I have almost nothing but positive things to say. I dont really want to give up but I dont want to give up feeling great. I thought the social aspect would both me, it doesnt. I was a 3-4 drinks of white wine per day. i underwent numerous tests and had 6 litres of the 10 litres of fluid drained. Once you have stayed sober for 6 months you will have overcome the withdrawal symptoms and notice changes and improvements in your memory and vision. Hangovers, unfulfilled promises not to drink and embarrassment tend to lead to self loathing which has been a joy to shake off. Everyday is a gift & new opportunity. Plus I had a kidney concern show up on a test from that period. So isolation was real bad. Thats exactly it. When will i feel my happy self again ? Sparkling waters, diet sodas and fruits like grapes have helped me greatly getting the carbonated feeling and sugar in my body that I missed from alcohol. There is a great book called Godspeed by Casey Legler. I lost fat and became more lean and muscular.. Ive been AF for 79 days today. Sugar cravings insane, NO good sleep, headaches, BUT I realise Ibhavd to be patient, Ive been drinking for loooong. Feeling better about myself. Your risk of developing certain diseases will decrease. Guess Im a bit slow , It is inspiring to see so many comments of success I would be celebrating 4 weeks today but I had a relapse celebrating a little food fortune.. Had been binge drinking for almost 2 decades although i have always been sports oriented. So, when you stop drinking, you may find that you have fewer cravings for food. One of the financial benefits of giving up alcohol is that you'll likely have more money to spend. Getting better sleep because you're sober certainly doesn't hurt either. But you might also experience what's called "hang-xiety," or anxious feelings that are experienced as part of a hangover, says Dr. Peterson. For some reason it has hit me over the head that the root word of intoxicated is TOXIC. I mean I would drink prior to this, weekends etc like many 20 somethings. For some its an easy choice and for others a painful one. New roommate with his own addiction issues. Still tired, and really miss a Manhattan, but its just not worth it. After Six Months: After half a year without drinking, you will really start to reap the rewards. I wake up restored and ready for another sober day. Ok, so far I do not feel as elated, but I have started to dance at outings which is huge. I like my life. Always good to reconsider your relationship with sugar as well. Only 36 and did drink alot when younger but not much since 2018, dont miss it at all so far and am trying to ditch it completely as its very bad for my condition now. From increased stress and anxiety, paranoia, anger management, unpredictable behavior, social anxiety , insomnia, fatigue and many other problems come from the damage to the brain. 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