If any of these tips resonated with you, I encourage you to follow some of the tips that I have talked on how to move forward. Lastly, the only time I would encourage you to maybe stick around is when a woman is open with you that she wants to be with you but is going through a difficult time like studies, loss of a family member, child troubles, etc. I had spoken to her, messaged her, stayed up to all hours comforting her, but when i needed it i could see she was online but ignoring me. Im a master now, you have no idea what this has done to my dating experience. Yesterday i sent a voice note and asked her what she thinks or feels but she completely ignored my message.By the way on Sunday, i ignored her, this was before the voice note and later through a text i told her that it wasnt personal but i found out that she actually took it personal.. so what can i do or rather what is the problem? So far. When we had a conversation she told me joking that i bored her. "I have to say, I have done it a little bit, but I at least have the decency to do it from a burner account," Lorenz jokes. Ive been married, cheated on and divorced many years ago now. She told me that she wont allow me. Best, If you want to know why your ex still follows you on social media, you must understand that dumpees and dumpers follow or keep following their exes for slightly different reasons. Please share #viral #wizkid #selina #viralvideo #government #humble #Tested #goviral #machalatte #machalaeloro #justice #wizkids #Lovers #wizkidfc #machalacity #gistloversblog #wizkidvideos #Mourn #mchala #Machala #machalarestaurantes #wizkidnews #justicecourt #nigeriafood #nigeriaweddings #Dehumble #God #asuu #as #viralvlog #As . It sounds like she might have started to get scared off. So I asked if she gave it to me? I proposed a classmate and she rejected me but she always sticks to me and always say she wants me to be happy. But then she texts me morning to night all the time, asking things like what are you doing? Of course she rejected me. You might be thinking well, if I dont pay attention to her she will go out and find another guy. Change Hurts. You are now armed to the teeth for when the war of not texting and ignoring breaks out. The moment was perfect for me to make the move and kiss her but again, i didnt. In a weird, petty way I"m satisfied by that because it means he's been checking up on my profile. I will see her at work on Friday, and we are due to have some works drinks in a couple of weeks time. 6. Why are you still spending time with a woman who rejected you? This kind of behavior is a clear sign that your ex is testing the waters with you and that his or her messages or calls are meaningless. I decided that I wouldn't hound her and give her space. Again I am lostLOL. In laymans terms, gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of someone to make them doubt their sanity, particularly by encouraging them to doubt their own experiences or perceptions of reality. You assumed a different character thinking that finally a woman will say yes to you- but you did not realize that a relationship is a private affair, and that your woman must know your true or private self. Around this time I realized her friends were making contact with me. One day to she wants to be a pair, next day she runs away of relationship. The chat she started was about her experience in life generally and then about sex and her past relationships and even she mentioned she loves sex a lot she doesnt mind doing it all day. Like it was comical. she said i give her time i asked and she was like 2/ 3 months but we communicate as we dating . I matched a girl on Tinder she had a general nature picture, and my account is the same. It was weird that they all started avoiding me. Some women are interested even though they don't show it. As soon as she moved out and in with a friend, i felt pushed away. You were constantly trying to make her happy but forgot about yourself during this time. Best, Thank you for commenting and stopping by my blog. If not, I can move on because I am Free. I am lost here and not sure what to do. And if I cant be just her friend to meet her, she doesnt care and that I will find another girl easily. We talk almost everyday. They're just likes, she probably still considers your a friend. Apollonia and Team. Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-GA) said on Monday night that she was attacked by an "insane" woman and "screamed at by her adult son" while dining at a restaurant . She said we can meet but as friends only. Regarding this Article I can say I had right same situation where she has shown me some acceptance first but she never shown much attention later to me. What happens here is also very common. Just a slight red flag. She was over the top denying it. Let me explain: The problem with texting her too quickly after a failed attempt to get the conversation going again is that it's likely to make you come across as needy. I have Ben reading your advice. They are all trying to get your money by slapping you with a false harassment claim. (he pointing I dont buy today I buy next time). Thank you for reading my blog post She Rejected Me, but Still Acts Interested! She smiles with her eyes. She started to tease me subtle. She said me she likes me as a friend. The staring went on for about 6 months before I walked up to her in the park. If this is you, dont worry because I will tell you how to fix it further along with this blog. Thank you for your support and reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested I appreciate your comment and Im glad you are here. Now, i dont dispute this she is out of a relationship but we were closer when she was in her relationship than out of it. ok She says she doesnt want a relationship or a boyfriend ok I get that. No, it was the same so the only thing is to move on and forget on her. But she still gives me attention and when she sees me ,she smiles and always wanna greet me. Hi apollonia your blog was excellent, i have read it at the right time .when i was in btech 1st year i saw a beautiful girl in my college and we started seeing each other whenever we have seminar she would turn and see me atleast 20 times and even at the buses she used to gaze me .so one day she was overseeing me and my emotional feelings got triggered.so that day i went and proposed her but she rejected me.i accepted it.all of a sudden she stopped seeing me and started ignoring me so i also pretended that i doesnt really care.but after 2 months she started again seeing afterwards my feeling became so high that i couldnt sleep .i was just thinking about her the whole day.so i wrote a beautiful poem with the title i love you for her .each and every guy who read my poem loved it.so i thought she will accept me .so i gave that poem to her but in return she replied your a fuckin creature ,what do you think about yourself and much more .so i was breakdown to such extent that i went into depression and suffering from insomia bipolar e.t.c.now i am in btech third year already geeting suicidal thoughts but that is not the issue she is again started seeing me.what should i do? I have this woman who i loved her alot and she knew it coz i told her already.she refused me by saying she dont want boyfriend for mean time,but fun things she dont want to let me go and then I told her my feelings again but still play the same game and it almost a year,i want to move on but she gave me something to keep me into her and that driving me crazy coz she dont want me but keep calling me leaving me with alot of questions.I dont know what to do but now Im ignoring her calls and answering absurd.i hope its right thing to do! If you let go of expectations then you will deliver more quality and abundance to the attraction stage and the relationship. (1) Im not really in a place to be dating relationships are complicated Even after you've told your partner that these mementos from her ex make you uneasy, she refuses to give them up, and, according to Brenner, this presents one of the biggest signs that your partner is refusing to move on from old memories of her previous relationship. hey so there is this girl I like so much and i was gonna tell her how i feel face to face when we met but we were all put on quarantine and so we couldnt meet. All of these are nonsense. Love it, Hi David, Didnt even say goodbye to that guy. She's still trying to move on from her previous relationship. Im not sure if you mean that you proposed to her marriage or you were just asking her out. After a while she became one of the bosses, a manager. I soon started to see signs that she likes me. Her name is Apollonia Ponti. I showed to much attachment she backed off. So to answer your question for all 3 the reason why is because its human nature. Apollonia. But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable. We like each other. We greatly appreciate your feedback on this article. This is a 4-day transformational retreat. As a coach, who also happens to be a woman, I have coached thousands of men in this type of situation. There is a girl working in a nearby restaurant who is from France. You can go on other dates and show her that its not all about her at the moment and if not, I want you to dedicate some time to yourself and get back your sense of self. Nonetheless, for me, the major reason for I being always been rejected by any kind of woman is that I am simply too much shy, too much physically unattractive and have a very unattractive way of being. We even went out on her birthday i skipped work and made excuses it was a great day (just 6 weeks ago now). 0 Reply. Give up totally? When a guy gives up chasing you, it may be because he feels you don't like him. She asked why? Finally another co-worker stopped talking to me because she over heard me tell another colleague that she was a "big fan . Holy cow, No emotional connection and no physical connection. So one day I wore it. Two days later she texts me at 9:00 AM by just saying this is first/ last name. Alrighty, bro. If this is how the game is played, then for people like me the only way to win (and not waste time) is to not play in the first place. 2. Two days ago, we stayed up late again to work. Hi Guern, She says shes never had a bond like this with anyone, and seems to want her cake and to eat it not only with me but her ex. Never in a million years would I suggest any man be with a woman that does this to him. If your partner is not over their ex, you may feel their lack of commitment in your relationship. One day during conversation she asked casually if I make more money than what make in India, also which car do I drive, to which I replied, I can buy a car but I dont need one as UK is not my home country. Line: "maybeI don't know", "I'm doing something now, but maybe later" "Idk, I'll call you later" but never really calls. Tip #3: How to make sure she ALWAYS gets in touch with you. Hi Henry, Always super nice. I have a problem that is I purposes a girl and first time I say her friends I want talk to my crush than she says I will through u shoes second time I say her that I have urgent work with u please meet me somewhere than she says okay and second time she says I have realation but when she says this she was thinking what I will say and third time I say her another time she says from there I am not interested in this what is this matter please help me. Ive expressed my feelings to a girl through the phone and she rejected me. She approached you only because she thought you guys were on the same page. If you do that, you'll kill her desire for you. 7 Reasons Why! She was very excited to see me (at least thats the impression I got from her). If I could make a donation I certainly would., Hey Carlo. I would love to help you with this. I would text her and she'd at first give one-word answers like she wasn't trying to talk, and then she started completely ignoring whatever I sent her. I then offered my number if she ever wants to talk. Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by marlow1962 ( m ): 10:04am On Jan 25. Then she stopped replying me whenever i messaged her she sees it but not replied back. You may have been trying harder than her and this does not have to happen in relationships. I can help you with this. Our pal Jeffrey Marsh has taken some heat for telling their young followers to subscribe to their Patreon so they can have deep, private conversations without their parent's knowledge. You are a saviour for lot of men. Just head to this link to book a one on one coaching session with me or one of my coaches: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, I look forward to working with you! That lasted 4 months but I didnt give up. Hi Vaibhav, A woman also wants to feel like she has to work for something and when she sees that she has you in the bag, then it makes you less desirable. talking about all kinds of things, and wants me to take her to lunch all the time. 12-Week Transformational Attraction Coaching w/Apollonia, NOW ACCEPTING JANUARY 2023 Enrollments . these are the common complaints I hear from men about women they stopped pursuing and got turned off by. We could talk for hours about nothing and cry on each others shoulders without hesitation. We hope to hear more feedback from you soon! Then she just stopped talking to me out of the blue. All the time I was kind and caring towards her and she was liking that and she found me so nice, gentle and sweet. Best, Listen, women can sometimes be the most confusing creatures on the planet and sometimes we can even confuse ourselves! Best, We stayed up late again, just the two of us. He stopped talking to me but still follows me Why Does My Ex Still Follow Me? Hi coach, thanks for your helpfull tips, i choose to keep calm and carry on! And remember to take care of yourself. Listen, we arent meant to be everyones cup of tea and if we build expectations to be everyones ideal partner, then we start to take personal offense to every rejection. I dont know what to do now Plz guide me maam. He allowed my heart to pine and really desire. Hi Apollonia, Should i continue to maintain silence and let her miss me and just maintain a professional relationship? Apollonia. She might be looking to play the field and have fun with other men. ShaunaM95 Follow. Compliments feel nice. Thanks for reading my blog! 3. Again with the hot and cold. If this is you then I want you to back away and start letting her come to you more. Its an ego boost. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, https://www.apolloniaponti.co/break-free-of-codepedency-sp. Dont continue to pour salt on a wound that isnt healed if you know what I mean. So I cant just go by her office. I havent messaged her out of work since Thursday last week she hasnt either. What does it mean? Situation: when asked to do something, she's never really sure/ keeps avoiding it. Hey Bryzow. Because personally, I dont see any fun on flirting with someone that you are not interested in because it is actualy boring, so why would you torture yourself? I will always be too much into a woman I like. Another reason why you might be thinking, She rejected me but still acts interested is that she feels that you are more of a friend than anything else. Stopped to talk = stopped, in order to talk; stopped talking = no longer talks with his friend, they have had a falling out. This means that you are trying to make the goal fast and you are frantically recovering, and trying to make up for everything and typically giving 100% of your attention that you lose yourself in the pursuit and this is what will kill attraction. 4. Apollonia. I would start dating other women and not give her any attention. You might hear from your friends that he's been talking about you. She says, just asking (probably because Id always say good morning and tell her to have a good day), I replied with, yep, alive and well. (All of the robots fire their lasers towards Anne. Its silly for me to ask this questions and im a little ashamed, but i think i really like her and we seem to be on the same wavelenght. If this woman continues to reject you and you keep trying, then its time to stop and slowly move on when you are ready. Women frustrate me and although I have been applying my own techniqueI would tell myself that I am free! If they dont then you have a better opportunity because she saw your willingness to walk away and respect yourself. When a man is unsure about how a woman feels about him, he'll pull back and wait and see what happens. In the former, interest and attraction are sky high but they decrease over time. My personal thoughts while I hear this story from a friend You made some great points about, holding on to, my dignity, integrity, and also I can live with you or without you attitude. To her, you're not . I acted like I dont care for her but still being polite in conversation. Part of the reason that I blamed myself so much following our night together is because of what happened the morning after we slept together. He wants to buy a stuff and have some questions about the soda, in the end with that he says. I work at a hospital shes a nurse. But i still have some questions, specifically on the 4 main points that you explained above. The 7 Most Important Signals You've Probably Been Missing From Women. This started in may. Shes not ready for a relationship but shes reaching out because she wanted your attention. I hope this blog helped and best of luck to you with everything! Then he gave me the very horse I had been painting. Men will do the same thing with a woman that hes not interested in (similar to hooking up with someone you dont want to date.. its a quick fix). We kinda work at the same office block then she comes to see me at work and asks me why I didnt text her back or check on her and telling me she was sick and she did not come to work yesterday. It seems like she had a big sense of control over the relationship and this has to be even. It's normal not to want to see any of your ex's posts if you're having a hard time getting . She told me she was off on Monday so . We got close because she confided in me about her relationship and during lockdown i helped her as she decided to move on from that which was a huge decision for her. We still talked three months after the break up and then one day blocked and ghosted. Your Friend May Have Taken A Hiatus. So my main concern is why would a woman still act interested on a guy if she has lost interest on him and rejected him? She was a bit confused what I mean and I just repeated of course you can invite me when youll be ready as Apollonia teaches us And I felt like a winner last night! So what do you think? She then tells me thst she is just ultra shy and struggles. Turn Offs For Women You Should Never Ignore. Sohelp me? Heres the thing, guys. What she's really saying: "If I'm really bored and have nothing else better to do, maybe I'll go out with you. Apollonia, well theres this girl that I really like but she is 5 years older than me When a woman rejects you and you show her that youre mad, hurt, or disappointed then you gave up your sense of control and no one can give their sense of control away unless they choose to. He explained to her friend. If your friend suddenly stops talking to you, they may simply be taking time to recharge as a means of self-care. Put yourself in the guy's shoes: He had just rejected you, but he didn't mean to hurt you. Their answers range from "I'm trash" (true!) Then after sometime i proposed her but she said no. If she likes you, rejecting you means shes a liar. This means the world to me and I hope you find what youre looking for in your journey. You have not figured out how to master the dynamics when it comes to pursuing women. I am aware that unfollowing someone has more to do with . I am really confused n hurting !! I was ok. She asked me if im upset and of course i answered that im not. Women are attracted to the inner confidence of a man and I talk about how to get out of the friend zone anymore in my product here! Part of re-attraction is understanding that you are not attached to an outcome and we are not obsessing over one desire. She did sting for me. I found it odd because 1) We haven't talked 2) He doesn't follow me on Insta, so he deliberately has to go to my profile just to see the Story. She talked to you for a while when she found you interesting. I found a young girl by accident at doc office. She proposed to meet more like friends to see how far we can come like that. (2) she said she would want us to be friends 3 or so days later, shes texting asking if Im ok I just said yeah, why? and what if he doesnt? 8. Sometimes men lead with their sexual desires because this is what theyve been taught. 4. She might be young or recently out of a divorce and she does not want to get into anything too serious. I also have my faith in Gods word and truly believe in His promises for me. Martin Lucas, a human behaviour expert at MasterMindset, says that if the person who broke things off is the one lurking on Instagram, then they're likely doing it to "validate the choice" they . Ive been following you for some time and knew the direction to go. Women want to be inspired by a man and true inspiration comes from motivation and positivity. So I noticed anytime Id see this girl, shed tell me I was a rock star. Answer (1 of 17): Cause you're plan B and he thinks he can keep tabs on you. I am going to show you 15 Sexy things you can start doing right now, that women find IRRESISTIBLE and this will instantly turn on the girl you are desiring! 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